No one should have to face the legal system or co-parenting challenges alone.
At FAIR, we believe access to knowledge is power — and clarity is the first step toward confidence. What began as support for fathers navigating the legitimation process has grown into a mission to help families as a whole build healthier co-parenting relationships and find trusted, practical resources.
This page gathers tools, guides, and directories to help you:
Prepare important documents and stay organized
Understand state laws and court processes
Locate courts and mediation services
Connect with free or low-cost legal assistance
Access support designed for fathers, families, and bonus parents
Explore our featured workbook, helpful links, and national resources below to begin your journey with the right information in hand.
LabCorp DNA Testing: Nationwide testing centers and at-home options.
DTC DNA Testing (Direct to Consumer): Order test kits online if in-person labs aren’t available.
VitalChek Online Services: Request certified birth certificates for any state.
CDC Vital Records Directory: Find your state’s Department of Health contact information.
FindLaw Family Law Center: Easy-to-read explanations of paternity, custody, and legitimation laws.
LawHelp.org: Connects you with free or low-cost legal aid by state.
State Family Courts: Direct links to each state’s court websites and forms.
List of Parenting Tools: Helps co-parents draft parenting schedules and agreements.
National Parents Organization: Advocacy and community for shared parenting.
Start here with your free journal — then continue your journey with our workbook and tools
A free guided journal designed to help parents document interactions, set positive intentions, and create a clear timeline of their co-parenting journey.
This easy-to-use tool encourages reflection, supports accountability, and gives families a way to stay focused on what matters most — the well-being of their children.
✨ Join our FAIR community to get instant access to your free copy and future tools, resources, and support.
Looking for more structured guidance? Check out one of our full workbooks below ⬇️
Take the first step toward protecting your parental rights and building a stronger future with your child.
This practical, easy-to-follow workbook walks fathers through every step of the legitimation process — from gathering documents and preparing for mediation to court filing and post-court reflection.
🧾 Inside you’ll find:
• Document prep checklists
• Mediation & court guidance
• Reflection pages
• Resource links & legal directories
No father should have to walk this journey alone — and now, you don’t have to.